have you ever been in love?. . .
Thursday, March 15, 2007have you ever been in love?
horrible isn't it? it makes you so vulnerable. . it opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. . you build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life. .you give them a piece of you. . they didn't ask for it. . they did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. .
love takes hostages. .
it gets inside you. .
it eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. .
it hurts. .
not just in the imagination. .
not just in the mind. .
it's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. .
i hate love . . .
Previous Comments
We only get hurt, when we allow someone hurts us.
:(… Sad to say, but I guess you are right, when we fall in love, we drop all our defenses and allow that person to hurt us..
Posted by john at March 15, 2007, 9:45 pmhey, i’ve read this before! yeah…there are times when I just love to hate love! can be a lot of pain in the posterior of one’s anatomy, hachoo! hehe, sounds bitter ba?
but u know what, i love this powerful quote from mother theresa:
“I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.” i don’t know but it has helped me through a lot.
beyond all that, i love being in love…
Posted by Cheska at March 17, 2007, 3:49 amAt this moment, I hate being in love!!!
Just this moment …. *Sigh*
I wanna drink some beer….
Posted by john at March 17, 2007, 8:00 pmi got this from my cousin
but, yeah, i can only agree AT THIS TIME that it hurts and it sucks
(naks! at this time daw oh! hahahhaa!)
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i feel pain reading your post
Posted by jeinalem at March 15, 2007, 6:36 pmit’s like “a glass splinter working its way into a heart”…