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“so..what is marriage?”

someone asked me..and if it ever crossed my mind to remarry..it is not a difficult question, really..been there, done that..so i said “no”..but if i will just follow my heart, and not reason with myself, i would answer him with a big, big “YES!” right away..i would love to spend the rest of my life with someone who will love me, it’s just that i want that person to be geared up for things to come (and myself as well)..a proposal is just the start of something enormous, blissful and complicated altogether..once you’re married, you cannot press “backspace”, “delete” or “ctrl + z” to undo it..being married is not just having a piece of paper to prove that you are into it..it is a state of mind that affects your whole life, completes you as a person, and a whole lot more..

anyhow, let me enlighten you with what marriage is all about..

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